
Everyone has teaching moments. No matter the profession, there comes a moment in our lives where we find ourselves educating, advocating, or just shedding light in situations where our particular knowledge is needed. In these moment we assume the role of "professor", hoping to dispel ignorance and at the very least challenge our "student" to consider alternative interpretations. These teaching moments come in a variety of settings and at times catch us off guard and may even interrupt our light-hearted good times. No one wants to have a teaching moment while waiting for our morning coffee at Dunkin Donuts, or at the airport after missing a flight, or especially while dropping off our kid at the day care before rushing off to work, but we do, and we deal. Today I had my teaching moment in the likeliest of places; the classroom.
I recognize that when teaching difficult and stigmatized subject matter such as feminism there are certain terms and concepts that are unfamiliar and complex for my students. The typical knowledge base, regarding feminism, of students that operate outside the gender studies or women's studies discipline tends to be limited at best. With this said I am continuously surprised at just how vast their limitations are, considering I deal with terminology that expands far beyond the women's studies discipline and even feminism. While covering the articles that were assigned for this week's class I discovered that the majority of my students had no idea what the term assimilation meant or in what context it is used. One of the major themes for this week surrounded the ideas of assimilation and tokenism as a form of oppression by the ruling class or dominant group in this country. Now I will say that I did not expect my students to make complex connections off hand or initially understand oppression as it relates to assimilation and tokenism. However in a college level course I did expect my students to know what assimilation meant. What was alarming to me is that the students that did know what assimilation and tokenism meant were students of color and none of my white students had even heard of the term. So alas, a teaching moment!
After defining the terms, I asked my students to think about why they had not been taught about assimilation or tokenism before this particular class? I wanted them to consider why these terms that are widely used within minority communities were not used or alluded to in their white middle class neighborhoods and peer groups. One student shouted out in a moment of clarity that "they" have to assimilate to "us"(meaning minorities assimilate to white society). She added, "why would we be taught these terms they don't apply to our lives, they are not our reality". With her revelation the need for a diversified education system was reaffirmed within me. The lack of cross-difference (beyond cross-cultural) understanding solidified by a flawed education system smacked me in the face when I digested her words. My responsibility at that moment was to fill in the holes left by the shallow, narrow, monolithic education they had received in their previous years. Diversity in education means more than just having teachers from different backgrounds, it means having a curriculum that represents the varied experiences of people. How do we begin to prepare our children for success when we are not invested in rounding out the quality of their education.